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Just want to know what YOU would do. I just discovered my husband is registered on various porn/meet up types of sites. I am so mad and just want to crawl under a rock right now. Thanks for your opinions on this.

Diane Fletcher

12:50 pm on Monday, November 26, 2012

So a man thinkith... so he is.
You have a tough road ahead…..None of us can make this decision for you….you have so many things to consider. Do you love him…do you believe he loves you…
http://pornographyaddiction.com/about/
http://www.sexualcontrol.com/sexual-addiction-and-the-symptoms-of-addiction.html

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Laura S

12:53 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Sounds like my EX-husband. While still married to me, he became engaged to a woman he met through an advertisement in a UK Beatles Monthly magazine and began relationships with at least two women he found through online dating services. He was absolutely having a major mid-life crisis; in the divorce, I told him a Porsche would have been cheaper.

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1:01 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012

This "blog" seems like troll bait to me....made up nonsense hoping for a bunch of crazy replys. Luckily few people took the bait.

As for you Laura, that was a little too much information and makes you look just as bad as your "EX-husband". Best of luck to you.

Random Gal

1:22 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012

I wish it was "made up nonsense", but unfortunately for me it is not. Thank you ladies for your help; at least I now know this has happened to others.

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1:54 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Were you withholding sex from your husband? Did you let yourself go and gain a lot of weight? While some men are just dogs, often the ones that end up looking for action on the side were forced there by wives who either refuse to have sex with them or let themselves go to the point that their husband no longer finds them attractive. Sometimes the best place to find answers is the mirror.

Lucky for me, my wife has neither issue....

Random Gal

9:15 pm on Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Well, I'm certainly happy for you that your marriage is going strong. I work out, and have always played along with my husband's fetishes, etc., but I guess that is not enough for him. That's alright, though - I know I try my best. By the way, you seem really angry for someone who has such a peachy life. Just saying.

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12:27 pm on Thursday, November 29, 2012

How exactly am I "angry"? YOU opened the door so I asked the question and I think Laura did give a little too much information if she is really posting under her real name (most likely trying to embarrass her ex). That isn't "anger", just keeping it real. If what you claim is true then maybe you are better off without your cheating, dishonest husband.

Good luck and happy holidays.

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